Place the black heart gem metal butt plug beside a single taper candle, with the heart turned away while your partner holds the snuffer above the flame. When they lower it, tip the base upright and guide their hand from the extinguished wick to the dark facets waiting in your palm. The room falls quiet, and the black heart becomes the only signal either of you needs.
Note: Each size is sold separately. The small size is the most approachable option, while the medium and large sizes provide wider profiles. The flared base stays outside the body as the stopper and removal grip, with the decorative black heart top outside as well.